Split Sea

Split Sea

Monday, May 23, 2016

While We Wait


Not a whole lot has happened since our last post.  We are STILL waiting on Callie’s LOA.  We are not just sitting here twiddling our thumbs though J

The Lord continues to prove to us that He has every aspect of this journey in His hands.  We were told we would be considered for a grant from Adoptions from the Heart May 3.  We were so praying this would happen.  You see we are projecting our travel to be end of July beginning of August and that is the highest tourist time for China.  This means the estimated costs for our plane tickets and hotel will probably not cover the cost.  So even if we would have only received a small grant it would have helped to cushion that extra expense.  We were informed we did NOT receive the grant.  I was kind of proud of myself because my first response was, “Ok Lord you must have this all taken care of already!”  This past week in one day we received two checks for the adoption that equaled $1000!  God has this!!!!  Every piece of it.  We received a video of Chayla (which I am not going to share for privacy reasons) and we were discouraged with what we saw.  Then the Lord reminded me we have two daughters coming home so they will have each other through the scary, emotional and uncertain times.  Before we knew there were two daughters for us I had never really thought about the comfort this will be for both of them.  To see someone else that looks like them, talks like them (for a little while) and is going through the same things they are and to have a sister to do life with.

Ciara has been at me for MONTHS to redo her bedroom.  When we found out we have two daughters coming home and not just one we knew we would need to make some significant changes to her room.  We took down the crib.  This is the first in 18 years there isn’t one up somewhere in our house.  It was kind of sad.  We also took her antique rope bed down.  We painted the walls.  Ciara has wanting to make an accent wall with circles since she started talking about this so we let her pick the colors and do it.  Her friend Becca helped her and they did the majority of it free handed.  It looks great!  My mother said we could have the day bed that she had so we brought that home for Ciara.  We are in the process of painting the bunk beds that we were given by some awesome friends.  When it is completely finished I will post a picture of the finished product.
The "pink" room Ciara wanted rid of
Painting, painting and more painting

Finished!
Bunk beds being painted
We are anticipating Conrad’s graduation from Manheim Central High School on June 9th.  So we have been busy trying to plan his party before he leaves for three weeks to go to North Carolina to help harvest Sage.

   

We were told that our agency received our authenticated paperwork back a week and a half ago and they sent it to the Chinese Government last week.  So we are really praying that they will issue our LOA for Callie quickly since they have the “extra” step of paperwork that they required from us.  We are getting to the point of having to rethink when we might be able to travel and I don’t like this one bit L  I know God has this all in control also it is just so hard to remember when while we are in the middle of it.

Exodus 14:14 says, “The Lord is working for you, and you have only to be silent.” This verse has been a daily reminder that we need to just rest in the Lord and it WILL happen in His perfect timing.  This is so not me.  I am very much like my Daddy in that I want to fix it and I always have a plan “A”, “B” and “C” to back it up.  So resting in His arms and trusting Him is work for me.
A sister from Church had a word for us last Sunday and it was focused around this verse.  She had no idea it is one of our verses we are clinging to.  The word the Lord gave her for us is that the sea has already been split and we need to just continue walking through it while we rest in the Lord as He works for us.  AS we worship and thank the Lord for all He has already accomplished for us through the process He will continue to break the chains for the remainder of the process to move quickly.

We sold 60 t-shirts.  Thank you to everyone that ordered one.  They were delivered to me the end of last week so I will be making contact with you for delivery.

We kicked off our puzzle fundraiser a week and a half ago and the support and Blessings given have been overwhelming.  If you did not receive information on this and would like to be involved please comment in the comments below.
Lastly we were surprised with an update from the girls last week.  We received our first picture of the girls TOGETHER!!!!  They also told us they will be moving the girls together.  There was one concern in the update but will wait until we have confirmation on it to share.  Just pray we get that confirmation this week, nothing life threatening.  We so want to be able to be with our girls to be a support and love on them for anything scary they have to go through in life.   

                                                                                                                                                     
A painting a friend did that I can't wait to get
on my wall with our girls pictures


Saturday, April 23, 2016

An Eventful Week

To say this week has been eventful is a small understatement!  We started the week by receiving our USCIS paper that told us that they give permission for us to adopt two children.  Phew we passed that!  This means we can get the extra papers the Chinese government was requesting sent to be authenticated with the hopes of having LOA for the girls by the first week of May.



The all important paper








Tuesday our daughter Ciara found out that she has a job for the summer at Canine Country Club.  Her first official job.


WE also found out this week that we are being reviewed for a grant from Adoptions from the Heart.  Please be in prayer May 3rd that we receive this.






We were realizing that in order for us to be able to travel when we would like to that we needed our LOAs to come quickly.  We were under the understanding that this probably wouldn't happen until after the CCCWA (Chinese government) got the copies of our authenticated paperwork.


Well to our surprise we got a phone call yesterday morning saying we have "soft" LOA for Chayla. This is the letter that we need from the CCCWA saying that they give us permission to adopt her.  SHE IS OURS!



 I read a post on one of my facebook groups this morning about weather adoptive parents "nest" like pregnant parents do?  I would have to say a BIG yes to this.  Nesting  is a very human reaction to the fact that a child (children :) )is arriving and life is about to change.  Somehow instinctively, we now that things need to be ready. That is the same, weather that child you are expecting grows in your body or in your heart.  Adoptive parents definitely nest and they definitely have that drive to prepare for their child or in our case children. . 


We have been preparing to repaint Ciara's bedroom and this week is when I really felt it was time to take the crib down in her room.  This is the first in 19 years that it isn't set up.  Kind of sad :(  We also took down her rope bed to make room for a daybed and bunk beds when the girls come home. I sanded the bunk beds to paint when we do Ciara's room.


I have been sorting and cleaning out every dresser, corner and closet in the house the last few weeks.  We are having a yard sale at my Mothers this Sat. and felt I need to just get everything sorted out and organized.


We have been BLESSED by friends with some clothing for the girls already so I went through all of them today and organized it by size.


Nesting?  YES!!! :)



Ciara's room with no crib.



Sorting the Blessing of clothes for the girls.

All organized and ready!


We feel like we are just starting with the true labor pains of this adoption.  We realize there is going to be a time where we are just so ready to "deliver" travel to meet them.  Then we will have the "new baby" just getting to know them stage.  Then we will have the "new parent" time to bring home and get acquainted and attached to each other stage. This will be the hard "labor pain" time.  All of this before we can enjoy "the delivery" just being together.  And just like with biological children there will forever be times of attachment, challenge, change, growth, flexibility, sadness, joy and love.  We hope you will continue to remember us in prayer even when we bring the girls home because that is when the true "work" will begin.  The fundraising was work but now we have two new daughters that we need to show love, patient, grace and how to be a family.




Prayer requests:
*That Callie's LOA comes today
*That they will now move the girls together in Callie's room since we have LOA
*That the orphanage will consider lessoning the second orphanage fee or even drop it completely
*That we can travel when we feel is best for our family
*That we can find plane tickets at a reasonable price
*That I can continue to keep everything straight with all the paperwork so we don't experience any more delays
*That this train keeps momentum and we can get to our girls quickly
*Wisdom on how soon after we have them home we need to get hem to doctors for their individual special needs